I accepted and felt grateful for anything that I got in my life thinking it as a God Gift and felt bounded to keep it and not look for anything even better than it to stay away from materialistic world and to not be bounded by world pleasures and distraction. The only mistake I did was to keep people in that category too and being loyal to them but what I have realised now is that you need to have standards specifically for people and now if anyone sets the bar I will always raise it either for good or for bad:)