We are marking another friendship day. Here is a note in less than 200 words:
Friendship is the bond that comes to pass after the birth of a human being, unlike mat. pat relations, which are pre-fixed even before one is born. Friendship is the bond that YOU CHOOSE. It is the bond that JUST HAPPENS, not pursued or forced. It is the bond that you give the Green flag to, out of several options being put out.
Many deem friendship as the intentional or acquired form of relationship but the truth is friendship is something which CHASES US. We don't chase it. We pair up with people our age from our surroundings, neighbourhoods, and classes. Out of the crowds of different races, which enable us to interact with one another, we choose to befriend whoever equalises the ratio of our compatibility. And that is the beauty of friendship. We get paired up with someone who mirrors us without having to chase them.
Meanwhile, Happy friendship day to the ones who consider! 🙂
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