Never give unsolicited free advice to anyone period. You may feel like u are helping but it makes the situation worse, control your urge to fix 🔧 people, if u really wanna help just listen to and connect with them, they need people to talk and not an emotional mechanic.
The only way to not be stressed is to develop stress resistance over time by gradually exposing ourselves to little mental and physical stress daily and not try to escape using cigarettes or alcohol.
If u want to cry ,cry infront of Allah,offer tahazzud. There is no use of bothering others about your troubles ,u may cry all night ,just make sure no one knows it cuz only Allah can soothe your pain.
Never trade your ambitions to be with someone who doesn't value your worth. Forget about treating u the same way how u treat them ,they gonna harm u the very opportunity they get. May Allah protect us from the evil eye.
U can lose a lot of money while chasing girls but u won't lose any girl while chasing money. Be focused on ur purpose my friend, the right person will find their way to u.
We men think that no one can control us but once in a while ,a beautiful face comes into existence and takes away our thoughts and with it our sleep. Will you not call it love, my friend.