If you fall get up by yourself, it's no use to cry. When you realise that no one will come to help you when you cry, you'll stop crying.
As long as someone ask you whether you feel pain, you'll feel pain.
As long as someone comfort you not to cry, you'll want to cry.
So to make yourself strong,the only way is to avoid people who care about you.
When they are nice to you,you can't help being independent on them.
If one day they treat you bad,you have no one to depend on.
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