After a time, you will stop kicking, crying, being sad, dump or pathetic about your life situation.
Because eventually you are going to realise that nobody is going to come to rescue you, and if you want to be rescued then you have to do it yourself or else be comfortable with the prison life of no sunshine!
I wanted so much for myself, the whole sky for myself with no limits and none holding me back but then I froze, could not go on. Stepped back and realised it is in giving that we receive. And that changed my whole life.