As you look for love, you see you have to keep growing along the way. You have to constantly keep evolving, with or without a partner. You can't still somewhere and say this is who I am and the one who gotta love me will love me for who I am. Sure they will, but you have to learn to flow, to adapt along the course of life. And I believe humans are naturally adaptable so now that we know it maybe easy to let go of any rigidity if we were holding onto any. Happy sailing!
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