Sometimes I wonder why it is so difficult for our hearts to accept that someone has left us. It's because
When we meet people, we like them, we befriend them and then we make our homes, our comfort zones in them and all that love, care we were supposed to give ourselves, we give it to them.
And then one day when they decide to go away ,they take a piece of our heart away and that's when you feel something's missing.
You don't miss them, you miss your home which you made in them.
So next time, be really careful about your choices, about making homes in other people. Rather invest in yourself. Pamper yourself enough that you don't need someone else to tell you that you matter and how much love you deserve!

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Overthinkers are altogether a different person when you talk to them at night! Being alone gives them ample time to go deep into their thoughts and overanalyse every single thing they have gone through.
They don't let their feelings out because they're scared to be vulnerable. It's so difficult for them to trust people as they have a constant threat of people letting them down. Despite knowing overthinking is their weakness, they still can't stop!

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I wonder how difficult it is for all of us to let go, to let go of that one person, one thing, one regret, one place! Letting go makes you free, it gives an immense joy. Holding on to the past and not embracing what you have right now is the worst mistake of your life. You are making yourself feel the same emotional pain and hurt by thinking about one thing again and again which once made you miserable. So from today, try to let go of all the things which are holding you back and start embracing the present! Start taking good care of yourselves. Much love ❤

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I wonder how we evolve over time. It's so surprising to see us learning so much from our past experiences which we thought were the worst and toughest times of our lives. Doing things we never thought we will ever do to taking responsibilities and decisions, we never knew when we grew up. A few days from now We are entering into a new decade where most of us will complete our education, get settled, married, get their dream jobs/ partners and we will loose some people for like forever. This is going to be a beautiful and the most difficult journey and anyhow we all know we will make it! Things will fall into place eventually. We will soon reach where we always wanted to be! Keep Working hard, Keep hustling.Much love❤

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Have you ever been in a Long distance relationship? What do u feel- is it too demanding? Is it too difficult? Does these relationships last?
I too once had these questions in my mind but then soon I got the answers when I got into one! Let me tell you people clearly that relationships only work when u want them to, it doesn't matter you guys live together or are miles apart. It's all about being loyal. And yes! it's demanding because it takes a lot more maturity,understanding,honesty, patience and commitment. Not being able to meet your partner for months can be too difficult and shattering sometimes, but for me every mile is worth when it leads me to him!

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You finally somehow get a week off from your college and come home. You are at so much peace at home and you don't realise when those days passed. You struggle with your heart when you realise that you have to leave next morning! That feeling of leaving my home again and going back to hostel haunts me! I never want to go back but, like ,every other time, with a heavy heart, I have to pack my bags and leave!!!
You have to step out of your comfort zone to succeed in life. You have to struggle everyday to achieve what you want in your life!

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Either I stay quiet or I speak the truth!

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After leaving my home and coming into the college, I realized there is a lot of inter state rivalry in the neighboring states. I mean like you met some people of other states and then you disliked them, so u judged them and made an opinion about the whole state and all the time what you do is, 'criticize them'. All you are doing is disrespecting the whole state which I feel nobody should because everyone is brought up in a different environment with different cultures and beliefs, that is why their behavior is different from you. Moreover there are a lot of inter indivual variations!
How would you 'My dear friend' feel when others are going to do the same with you?
Behavior of one person of a community doesn't define the whole community.
Stop judging and start respecting!

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When we are In love, we generally make our partner our life, our everything revolves around them, but don't loose yourself when you are into a relationship.
A relationship means sharing your life with someone who you think can support you emotionally, mentally, physically, it means sharing with someone who can understand u and be there when u need them (both happy and sad times)...
But i have seen people loosing their individuality when they are in a relationship. Guys remember they are a part of your life, not your life!!
Love yourself first and then love others.
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To men,
I have a question for all of you, why do you say that a happy woman is a myth? !
Women crave for your love, your attention.
You need to pamper your woman and it's done!! It's done really! Women(most of them) generally don't want expensive gifts, luxury cars, all they need is your time and love. Most of the males question that is it important to express their love daily?
Not daily but yes when she needs it, when she asks for it, when she's low.
I absolutely understand that you need to be practical in relationships but you really need to give her emotional support when she's low. To a long lasting relationship, understanding, communication and loyalty is the key.
Understand her and then see how happy she stays always!

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