My being easygoing does not mean
I am stupid, gullible, naive, or unaware.
It means I'm willing to allow you to be you,
even if that you is an unpleasant person.
My not calling you out on your lies
doesn't mean you've conned me.
It means I'm giving you the opportunity
to tell the truth on your own.
My not forcing you to follow the rules
doesn't mean I am weak.
It means I'm giving you the opportunity
to show me if you're really an adult.
My allowing you in my life doesn't mean
I approve of or ignore your behavior.
It means I'm giving you a chance.
Whether I continue to allow you in my life,
and to what degree I allow you in my life,
depends on you.
My being easygoing doesn't mean I won't
eventually set some firm boundaries,
even if it means excluding you from my life.
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