Grief Doesn't Need Validation
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Funny thing about grief is
It's so personal,
Yet goes through public screening of validation
How long should one grieve?
Whether or not one should grieve?
Maybe one's grief doesn't cross
The threshold on their scale!
Maybe they want one to cheer up
Because life goes on
And one will eventually one day.
But grief is more than personal;
It's intimate!
So maybe drop the scale of validation
One never asked for it!
May be
Just be with them
Or let them be.
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