If you were to speak to a plant, saying, "You're not growing, you're incapable. You'll just sit there and spawn. You'll never grow in life." What would be the outcome?
Alternatively, why not create an environment for the plant to thrive and blossom?
Its the same with humans.
People often preach about the importance of positivity but when it's time to demonstrate it, they flee like cowards, avoiding the responsibility.
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