Instead of saying "Don't give me an attitude", We should say "What's bothering you?"
Instead of saying "Don't need to talk", We should say "Let's talk about it"
Instead of saying "You are always like this", We should say "You are not like this"
If we can't motivate others then we should atleast try not to demotivate them. If you can't handle things properly, you should keep your advices to yourself then. Because sometimes it hurts.
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