some people aren't angry. rather, anger is rammed to the core of their being. their anger is beyond the lines of rationality, logic and nature. anger is their reality like despair is for some and hopelessness for others. in their anger they suffer more than others do due to it. they are as much a victim of it as others in their lives. what might be the root of such raw anger that nothing matters when put against it? neither friendship nor love. what are they angry about? others? life? circumstances? I think more than anyone they are angry at themselves. because it's easier to forgive others than ourselves. sometimes, we don't even know that we fight not the world but ourselves, I guess that's what makes us bitter as life passes us, fighting a fight in the dark, not knowing what are we fighting, what is the fight about, what is the fight for.
and is it possible to be angry on someone who suffers all of it? no. though, it might be tiring and heartbreaking to be around but all you have for them is warmth and compassion.
to get rid of bitterness, you have to meet it with sweetness not more of its own kind.
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